Thanks to JB for e-mailing me about the first time he had a wank:
I guess I was a late bloomer, my first orgasm occured when I was about 15. I used to put a pillow on my bed and lay on top of it with my erection between the bed and the pillow, simulating being inside a girl. This felt good, but I'd only read some dry clinical information regarding sex which made mention of "rythmic movements" leading to ejaculation. I couldn't figure out what sort of movements, and tried various things including flexing my erection, but none seemed right so I never achieved orgasm. One evening when I was lying as described above, I felt the need to adjust my position. As I did, I guess it stimulated my penis just right because suddenly my hips seemed to take on a life of their own and began thrusting. Within a few thrusts, I felt a wave of the most intense feeling wash over me. when it was done, I realized that I must have ejaculated! I looked under the pillow and behold! There was a small puddle of semen! I got a tissue to clean it up, and after that I did that as often as possible, finding ways to lube etc. To this day, it's my favorite way to masturbate.